问题 多项选择题

一般资料:求助者,男性,26岁,某学校教师。

案例介绍:求助者在师范大学硕士研究生毕业后,来到某中学任教。班里的学生经常不听自己的,因此对学生不满意,经常批评学生,要求学生必须听自己的。因师生关系苦恼,前来寻求帮助。

心理咨询师观察了解到的情况:求助者自尊心较强,争强好胜,容不得失败,追求完美。

下面是心理咨询师和求助者的一段咨询对话:

咨询师:你生气的具体原因是什么呢?

求助者:我经常为学生的事苦恼,他们干什么总不合我的意,我特别看不惯他们做的事,我说他们,他们不听,说我太认真。这哪象我年轻的时候,我上学时成绩门门都是优秀。我对学生要求很严,学习必须好。但他们不听我的。

咨询师:噢,我明白了,你的学生不太听你的话,这使你很生气,是这样吗?

求助者:对,就是因为他们不听我的话,惹我生气。

咨询师:按你所说,你说话别人就应该听。

求助者:是的,我是老师,他们当然应该听我的。

咨询师:您信奉的是老师讲话,学生就应该听。

求助者:对呀,学生必须听老师的。

咨询师:因此,你老师说的话,你肯定听,他说学生不谈恋爱,你就不谈,他说应该考博士,你就考博士。

求助者:对……噢,不是这样的,(沉默)好象不是,我老师让我读博士,我也没读。

咨询师:你刚讲过学生必须听老师的,而你又讲了你老师让你考博士,但你没考,这似乎有些矛盾,请你解释解释好吗?

求助者:(沉默)…….可我说的是对的,他们就应该听我的呀。

咨询师:你老师让你考博士,是对还是错呢?

求助者:(沉默)难道他们真的可以不听?

咨询师:你认为你生气是由于学生不听你的话,不按你的意思去办事,其实学生不按你的要求做是一件事,你要求学生必须象您一样来要求自己是你的信念。你的信念有的是合理的,有的是不合理的,不同的信念会导致不同的情绪状态。如果你认识到自己现在的情绪状态是一些不合理的信念所造成的,通过改变它,你就能控制自己的情绪。

求助者:我好象明白了。

咨询师:明白了吗?说不说由你,听不听由他们,以后可别多管闲事,自找没趣了。

“以后可别多管闲事,自找没趣了”表明心理咨询师()。

A、合理化建议

B、解决具体问题

C、指责求助者

D、解决困扰问题

答案

参考答案:B, C

单项选择题
阅读理解

阅读理解。

     In today's throw-away society, dealing with the city's growing mountain of waste is an increasing

challenge for the city council (市议会).

     Recently, Edinburgh is faced with the problem of disposing of (处理) about 250,000 million tons of

waste a year. Despite different ways to dispose of much of it in a green manner - largely through

encouraging recycling-its aging facilities such as the Powderhall landfill do not have the ability to deal

with it.

     The European Union (EU) has issued a new policy, regulating how such mountains of waste are to be

disposed of. The five councils ( Edinburgh, East Lothian, West Lothian, Midlothian and Borders ) face

fines around £18 million a year from 2013 if they don't increase recycling levels and rely less on landfill. With this in mind, the councils got together with the idea of building a large incinerator plant (垃圾焚烧

厂) to burn half of the waste produced in their districts. But this plan fell apart after the change of target

levels by a new UK government waste policy which required that no more than 25% of the city's waste

should be disposed of in this way by 2025.

     After the plan was abandoned, a private company which already transported millions of tons of the

city's waste by train to a landfill site near Dunbar, offered an alternative solution when it suggested

opening a huge waste site near Portobello.

Since Powderhall is supposed to close in 2015, it seemed necessary for the members of the Edinburgh

Council to accept the suggestion. But soon they turned it down - after 700 local objections reached

them - because it would have meant hundreds of lorries a day making loud noise through heavily

populated areas.

     That still leaves the council with a problem. By 2013, only 50% of 1995 levels of waste will be

allowed to be sent to landfill. Even if recycling targets are met, there will still be a large amount of

rubbish to be burnt up. Due to this, Edinburgh and Midlothian councils have now decided to work

together to build an incinerator plant as time to find a solution is fast running out.

1. The main way of handling waste in a green manner in Edinburgh is ________.

A. recycling   

B. restoring   

C. burying   

D. burning

2. The five councils worked out a plan to build an incinerator plant to ________.

A. reduce the cost of burying waste                

B. meet the EU requirements

C. speed up waste recycling                      

D. replace landfill sites

3. The city council of Edinburgh rejected the suggestion to open a huge landfill site near

    Portobello because ________.

A. it came from a private company              

B. the council was not interested in it

C. it was not supported by EU                  

D. the local people were against it

4. What is the final decision of Edinburgh and Midlothian Councils?

A. To open a new landfill nearby.          

B. To close the Powderhall landfill in 2015.

C. To set up a plan for burning waste.      

D. To persuade people to deduce their waste.