案例二： 一般资料：求助者，女性，47岁，本科学历，外资企业高级职员。 案例介绍：求助者三个月前，偶然得知十七岁的女儿谈恋爱了，男友是外来打工者。老师反映，其女儿经常无故缺课，成绩逐步下降。求助者曾经严厉批评女儿，并去找女儿的男友，让他与女儿断绝来往。常为琐事和女儿吵架，沟通困难。求助者近期经常失眠。吃不下，睡不着，爱忘事。为女儿的事影响了工作，不想去上班，甚至想辞职，专门管女儿。在朋友的劝说下来咨询。 心理咨询师观察了解到的情况：求助者好强，办事干练。同事反映，最近她的工作效率明显降低，经常一个人发呆，注意力不集中，记忆力减退，经常对下属发脾气，经常缺度公司的例会。
该求助者社会功能受损的标志不包括（）。
A．记忆力减退
B．工作效率下降
C．经常发脾气
D．经常一人发呆
参考答案：A, D
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