请先阅读下面短文，掌握其大意，然后从方框中所给的词中选出最恰当的10个填空，并将答案填写到答题卷的相应位置。每个词限用一次。（每小题1分）
Deal with Conflict Losing friends is about as easy as making friends if you don’t know how to deal with anger and conflict（冲突）. Conflict is part of everyone’s .It will show up at school, at work and at home. It’s OK to feel angry, annoyed or sad. These feelings are , but different people deal with in different ways. Some people shout, call people names, or even hit the person who has them. Others do their best to keep away from disagreements but very few deal with conflict . Dealing with conflict is a step by step process(过程). you start discussing the problem, calm down, count to 10 and imagine a relaxing .Then, say what is really bothering you, but watch how you express yourself. Don’t complain. Share you feel by using “I…”. For example, don’t say “You are always ordering me to do this or to do that,” but “I feel sad you don’t pay attention to what I think.” You want people to your opinion so make sure you practice what you want to say. Listen carefully to the other person and accept that he or she might see the problem in a different way. Be open-minded and willing to say sorry. |
小题1:life
小题2:natural
小题3:them
小题4:hurt
小题5:successfully
小题6:Before
小题7:place
小题8:how
小题9:because
小题10:hear
题目分析：本文叙述了处理冲突的方法。不同人处理冲突的方法是不同的。处理冲突要一步一步的。首先要镇定下来，然后说出真正困扰自己的事情；不要抱怨，要把你的感觉与他人分享；你想让人们听你的观点，所以要确保自己能实践自己想要说的事情。要虚心，愿意说声对不起。
小题1:位于名词所有格everyone’s后面用名词life。句意：冲突是每个人生活的一部分。
小题2:根据It’s OK to feel angry, annoyed or sad.可知感到生气、恼怒或者悲伤没有关系，说媒这是很自然的事，故此处为 natural。句意：这些感情是很自然的。
小题3:代替复数名词These feelings作deal with的宾语，故用代词them。句意：但是不同人用不同的方法处理他们。
小题4:根据hit the person可知要撞击那个伤害他的人，故此处用动词hurt。句意：或者撞击伤害了他的那个人。
小题5:根据Others do their best to keep away from disagreements可知其他人远离了冲突，因此就无法成功的解决冲突。此处修饰动词短语deal with conflict，故用副词successfully。
小题6:根据calm down,可知镇定下来应是在解决问题之前，故用连词Before。句意：在开始讨论问题之前，镇定下来。
小题7:此处有不定冠词a修饰的是一个单数名词，故为place。句意：数到10，想象一个放松的地方。
小题8:作为动词share的宾语从句you feel 中，feel是不及物动词，故用接宾语，故用状语how。句意：把你的感觉如何分享。
小题9:you don’t pay attention to what I think“你不关注我的想法”和 I feel sad “我感到悲伤”，之间是因果关系，故用连词because。
小题10:根据pay attention to what I think可知要想让人关注你的想法，意思是听别人的想法，根据短语want to do sth.故此处用动词原形用hear。句意：你想让人们听你的观点，因此要确保自己能实践自己想要说的事情。
