It’s easy to see how to help some people, but what about those whose needs are not so clear? This story may have happened not long ago--- but it was a lesson which has stayed with me and helped me ever since.

It was Thanksgiving and I was volunteering with my parents at a shelter for the needy. We served hot food to whoever came in. Most of our dinners looked like they had been having hard times; their clothes were worn out and dirty. Then, a man came in, who looked anything but needy. He was well dressed. I wondered what he was doing there and my jaw (下巴) dropped in amazement when he joined the line for food. The closer he came to my service station , the more I muttered (小声抱怨). What was this man doing? Surely he wasn’t going to take food which was meant for those who were really in need!

Then my mother quietly took me to one side. She said, “You have thought that the needs of the people who come here must be purely physical, hunger, etc. And this gentleman doesn’t seem to have any of those problems. But what if his needs are emotional（情感的）? What if he needs comfort, friends, or just to be among other human beings? Her words hit me like a ton of bricks! I felt like I should apologize to the man--- but I didn’t.

About a week later the shelter received a large donation from an anonymous source. I can’t help but wonder if it came from that man.

Now, whenever I meet someone I remember my mother’s lesson and try to send kindness their way, no matter how they look. Needs aren’t always seen. But kindness always makes a difference.

小题1:How did the author feel as the well-dressed man joined the line for food?

A．Surprised

B．Excited

C．Nervous

D．Hopeless小题2:The author’s mother mainly wanted to tell the author that we ______.

A．shouldn’t judge a man by his appearance.

B．shouldn’t complain about others

C．should give others what they want.

D．should accept everything we meet小题3:What does the underlined word “anonymous” in Paragraph 4 probably mean?

A．Important

B．Unknown

C．Independent

D．Excellent小题4:From the last paragraph, we learn that ______.

A．seeing is believing

B．it’s difficult to be kind to others

C．some rich people pretend to be poor.

D．we should help people in the way they need.小题5:What would be the best title for the text?

A．My mother’s influence on my growth

B．The importance of volunteering

C．One of my most shameful experiences

D．My mother’s simple lesson in kindness

背景

某写字楼建设项目，建设单位与施工单位签订土建和装饰装修施工合同，建设单位委托监理单位对该工程土建施工和装饰装修进行工程监理。在该工程装饰装修过程中发生了如下事件：

事件一：装饰装修合同中规定5000m2的花岗石石材由建设单位指定厂家，施工单位负责采购。当第一批石材运到工地时，施丁单位认为：由建设单位指定用的石材，在检查产品合格证后即可用于工程；而监理工程师认为必须进行石材放射性检测。经抽样检验发现石材质量不合格。

事件二：为了赶工期和避免人员窝工，在屋面防水工程、室内轻质隔墙、安装管道和电气管线敷设、专业工程预埋件、预留空洞还未完工之前，施工单位就进行了室内抹灰、吊顶、裱糊、饰面板工程施工。

事件三：该写字楼外墙采用隐框玻璃幕墙，幕墙与主体结构采用后置埋件连接，因为幕墙构造需要，在填充墙上也采用后置埋件连接。在施工前，施工单位在现场室内混凝土构件上埋置了两块后置埋件，并委托施工单位直属的有专业检测资质的检测中心对这两块后置埋件进行了检测，作为后置埋件检测的依据。

事件四：在玻璃幕墙安装完毕后，由施工单位委托具备相应资质的检测机构对幕墙进行了“四性试验”检测，符合规范要求，于是对该幕墙工程施工质量进行了验收。

事件二中，施工单位的施工程序是否正确？说明理由或给出正确做法。