问题 材料分析题

材料一:一学生说:“我悄悄地喜欢上了一个人。”

材料二:一家长说:“女同学往家打电话,我儿子根本不让我知道。我只要一问,他就说问那么多干吗。因为这件事,我们俩闹得挺不愉快。我不愿意让他过早地跟女孩子接触。”

材料三:一家长说:我是一男孩的妈妈。八年级时有女孩给他写信,他没有拆,把信给我了,对我说:“妈妈,这是谁给我写的信,我不拆就知道什么意思了。”我跟他说:“你不想拆,我也不拆,我尊重你。不过你不要去伤害她。你要尊重她,还要像以前一样跟她交往,而且不要跟其他同学说,你有为她保守秘密的责任。”

(1)请问:如何正确认识异性同学之间的情感、交往与友谊?(正确态度是什么?)

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(2)请思考我们如何在异性情感交往中作出负责任的选择?

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(3)谈谈异性交往中如何保护自己,以促进健康的男女生交往。

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答案

(1)异性同学间的交往是学校生活的一个重要内容,它能让我们获得更加丰富的友谊。男女同学的交往,可以增进我们对异性的了解,学习对方的长处,完善自己的个性,促进身心健康发展;可以扩大交往范围,锻炼交往能力;还可以学习如何适应社会对不同性别的要求,增进自己的性别意识,使男生成长为男子汉,女生成长为好姑娘。随着青春期的到来,我们的生理和心理都发生了一系列的变化。我们开始关注异性,渴望接触、了解异性,甚至可能萌发对异性的好感或爱慕之情。这是正常、自然而美丽的事。

(2)男女同学之间的情感,需要慎重对待、理智把握,当我们在情感门前徘徊时,需要反思自己的情感选择。在反思中学会选择,学会承担责任;在选择中我们把握青春,在承担责任中我们长大成人。

(3)在与异性相处时,我们要学会保护自己。社会的法律、道德,学校的纪律、守则,社会的良好习俗,健康的文化环境,给我们提供了外界的保护。增强自我保护意识,掌握自我保护的方法,以及我们的自律,是对自己最好的保护。

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Dear Eric:
Linda and I have been best friends since we were six years old. We often study and play together. It’s great! But she often gets unhappy when I get better grades than her –she really gets jealous. Should I keep taking her as my friend?
Yours,
Alice
Hi Alice,
I think friendship is important in our lives. You should talk to your friend. Tell her you’re both studying and it’s common that sometimes you get a better grade and sometimes she does better. Tell her you’re going to compete(比赛) with her and try to beat her in every test . maybe you can tell her that if she beats you, you’ll buy her some chocolate or something like that. If you can make your schoolwork into a game, you’ll both win in the long run (从长远看), and you will both start to get better grades in your subjects. If it’s a game, you’ll both enjoy school a lot more, and you’ll still be best friends.
Your,
Eric
小题1: The word “jealous” means “   ” in Chinese.
A.崇拜的B.嫉妒的C.同情的D.担心的
小题2:From Alice’s letter, we know Linda
A.is an unfriendly girlB.iS Eric’s best friend
C.often has a fight with AliceD.knew Alice many years ago
小题3: What’s Alice’s problem?
A.She doesn’t know how to get better grades.
B.She doesn’t know what to do to help Linda with her schoolwork.
C.She doesn’t know whether she would be friends with Linda anymore.
D.She doesn’t know how to get along with her teachers and classmates.
小题4:Eric asks Alice to talk to her best friend and
A.compete with herB.say sorry to her
C.lose to her in each testD.help her with her homework
小题5:What may happen if Alice and Linda follow Eric’s suggestions?
A.They’ll never speak with each other
B.Both Alice and Linda will do better at school
C.Linda will get mad at Alice and argue with her
D.Alice will get some chocolate from Linda after each game.
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