第三节：语法填空（共10小题；每小题1分，满分10分）

  阅读下面短文, 按照句子结构的语法性和上下文连贯的要求，在空格处填入一个适当的词或使用括号中词语的正确形式填空, 并将答案填写在答题纸标号为56-65的相应位置上。

You have the ability to decide if you are happy or not. Happiness is a   56  (choose).

You can’t depend on someone else to make you happy. That is a lesson I learned early in my marriage.   57  (realize) that I couldn’t rely on my husband as my source of happiness, I learned that you have to choose to be happy.

You can choose your emotions. True happiness comes from within；  58   can’t be forced by outside forces. It is the same way you choose to smile. You choose it because that’s   59   you want to experience in your life.

You want to buy a new pair of shoes so you choose a pair   60   you like and feel good. You wouldn’t buy a pair of shoes you don’t like or that don’t fit well，right?

Choosing to be happy after you realize your anger has shown up (or even choosing to be calm)can be   61  (benefit) . We choose our feelings; no one can do that for us. If we let others get to influence   62   emotions，we are giving them power over us. When others cause us anger or pain，we   63   (give)them our power.

We need to keep our feelings in check and not react automatically to what is thrown at us. We need to think our actions out instead of just reacting to what someone says or does.

Remember that we can always choose happiness. At first it will be difficult to just switch your thoughts and feelings   64   anger，self-doubt，or fear to joy and happiness. But it is only a thought away. Don’t be lost in what happens to you    65   (necessary) but realize what is causing you to feel that way. Realize that thoughts，feelings and emotions can change. Then move on and choose to be happy.