咨询师表达真诚的重要意义体现在（）。
A.真诚有利于诊断过程的顺利进行
B.真诚可以给求助者营造安全、自由的氛围
C.真诚可以让求助者感觉自己是被接纳、被信任、被爱护的
D.真诚可以帮助求助者自我探索和改变
参考答案：B, C, D
解析：咨询师的真诚具有如下重要的意义：(1)真诚可以为咨询营造安全、自由的氛围，使求助者感到可以向咨询师敞开心扉，袒露自己的内心世界，坦陈自己的心理问题所在，包括软弱、失败、过错、隐私等而无需顾虑，同时感受到自己是被接纳、被信任、被爱护的。(2)咨询师的真诚为求助者提供了一个良好的榜样，通过榜样学习，求助者学会真实地与咨询师交流，坦然地表露或宣泄自己的喜怒哀乐等情绪，并可以发现和认识真正的自我，在咨询师的帮助下，促进自我探索和改变，而这种改变会减少会谈过程中的模糊不清和误解，使双方的沟通清晰和准确。
An old man lived in a nice house with a large garden. He took care of his 1 all the time, watering and fertilizing(施肥)them. One day a young man went by the garden. He looked at the beautiful flowers, imagining how happy he could be 2 he lived in such a beautiful place. Then, suddenly he found the old gardener was 3 . He was very surprised about this and asked, “You can’t see these flowers. 4 are you busy taking care of them every day?” The old man smiled and said “I can tell you four reasons. First, I was a gardener when I was young, and I really like this job. Second, 5 I can’t see these flowers, I can touch them. 6 , I can smell the sweetness of them. As to the last one, that’s you.” “Me? But you don’t know me,” said the young man. “Yeah, it’s 7 that I don’t know you. But I know that flowers are angels(天使) that everybody 8 . We enjoy the happiness these flowers have brought us.” The blind man’s work opened our eyes and 9 our hearts, which also made his life 10 . It was just like Beethoven, who became deaf in his later life and wrote many great musical works. Beethoven himself couldn’t 11 his wonderful music, but his music has 12 millions of people to face their difficulties bravely. Isn’t it one kind of happiness?
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