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What are the situations that make you shy? You're not shy all the time. For example, when you're with your best friend, you're probably very open and comfortable being yourself. Shyness is the effect of feeling insecure(不安全). If you can identify what you're feeling insecure about, you can then take action on it.
Many of us tend to focus on what we're not good at, rather than recognize what we are good at. As a
result, we feel awkward around others, because we feel there's nothing impressive about ourselves. It's
time to stop selling yourself short and start focusing on your strengths. What are you good at? What are
your past achievements? What are things you've done that you are really proud of? Spend some time to
recognize them.
Many people worry too much about what others think about them. But the funny thing is, it's just in
your mind. Most people are actually too busy to pay attention to what you're doing or not doing, so stop
spending time worrying about others' opinion of you.
Can you think of someone (whether a friend or a famous person) you know who is very confident,
assured and outgoing? Use the person as your role model. Whenever you feel shy, ask yourself what that
person will do/say in this situation. Then, do that. Soon, it becomes second nature to you to behave in that manner.
Another great way to overcome shyness is to observe how others around you act. Reduce the time
you spend worrying about what others think of you and look outward at how others behave themselves
socially. What do they say? How do they act? What can you learn from them?
1. According to the passage, what is the reason for shyness? (No more than 3 words)
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2. How many suggestions are given in the passage? (No more than 2 words)
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3. According to the writer, why don't we need to worry about others' opinion of us? (No more than 15
words)
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