Self-esteem(自尊心) is all about how much we are valued, loved, accepted, and thought well of by others and how much we value, love and accept ourselves. People with healthy self-esteem are able to do better in school and find it easier to make friends. They tend to have better relationships with others, feel happier, find it easier to deal with mistakes and failures, and are more likely to stick to something until they secceed, People with low self-esteem may feel as if no one will like them or accept them or that they can’t do well in anything.

The folowing ways may help you improve your self-esteem.

Try to stop thinking negative thoughts about yourself. If you’re used to focusing on your shortcomings, start thinking about positive aspects of youself that outweigh them. It is good to aim high, but your goals for yourself should be within reach, That’s why you should set practical goals and never expect the impossible. Mistakes are part of learning, so view mistakes as learning opportunities. Accept that you make mistakes because everyone does. Also, you should recognize what you can change and what you  can’t. If you realize that you’re unhappy with something about yourself, you can change and start from today. If it’s something that you can’t change(like your height),start to work toward loving the way you are.Feeling like you’re making a defference or that your help is valued can do wonders to improve your self-esteem. So don’t hesitate to make a contribution. You can lend a hand to a classmate who’s having trouble. Hope your neighborhood clean up, or volunteer to  do some other things.

Self-esteem plays a role in almost everything you do. It’s never too late to build healthy self-esteem. It takes some work, and it’s a necessary skill you’ll have for life.

64.The underlinded word”them” in Parsgraph 3 refers to “_______”.

A. your classmates    B. your shortcomings  C. your strong points  D. your goals

65.According to the passage, which of the following can help improve your self-esteem?

A. Setting high goals similar to others’

B. Never fogiving yourself for your mistales.

C. Lending a hand to a classmate in trouble.

D. Changing all the things that make you unhappy.

66.The passage is mainly about _______.

A. how people improve their self-esteem

B. what self-esteem means

C. what people with low self-esteem are like

D. what people with healthy self-esteem are like

67.How many ways of improving your self-esteem are mentioned in the passage?

A. 5          B. 6            C. 7            D. 8

背景

高新技术企业新建厂区里某8层框架结构办公楼工程，采用公开招标的方式选定A公司作为施工总承包。施工合同中双方约定钢筋、水泥等主材由业主供应，其他结构材料及装饰装修材料均由总承包负责采购。

施工过程中，发生如下事件：

事件一：钢筋第一批进场时，供货商只提供了出厂合格证，业主指令总承包对该批钢筋进行进场验证，总承包单位对钢材的品种、型号、见证取样进行了质量验证。对钢筋的屈服强度、抗拉强度进行了复试。监理单位提出了意见。

事件二：袋装水泥第一批进场了300t，水泥为同一生产厂家、同一等级、同一品种、同一批号。业主指令总承包进行进场复试，总承包单位对水泥的抗折强度、抗压强度进行了一组复试。复试合格后，总承包方直接安排投入使用。使用过程中，水泥出现了质量问题。建设单位认为是总承包单位作的复试，质量责任应由总承包单位负责。监理单位下达了停工令。

事件三：总承包单位按《建设工程质量管理条例》（国务院令第279号）规定，对商品混凝土、砂石、砌墙材料、石材、胶合板实行备案证明管理。

事件四：总承包单位依据质量稳定、履约能力强的原则选择了建筑外墙金属窗、塑料窗生产厂家，并进行了抗风压性能复试。

事件五：业主经与设计单位商定，对主要装饰石料指定了材质、颜色和样品，并向承包商推荐厂家，总承包方与生产厂家签订了购货合同。进场时经检查，该批材料颜色有部分不符合要求，承包方要求厂家将不符合要求的石料退换，厂家要求承包方支付退货费用，承包方不同意支付，业主在应付给承包方工程款中扣除了上述费用。

指出事件一中不妥之处，并分别说明正确做法。