One effective way of destroying happiness is to look at something and focus on even the smallest fault. It's like looking at the tiled(铺瓦的) ceiling and concentrating on the space where one tile is 小题1: .
Once I heard a bald(秃头的) man said. “Whenever I enter a room,  小题2:  I see is hair." Once you've   小题3: what your missing tile is, explore whether getting it will   小题4:  make you happy. Then do one of the three things: get it, replace it with a different  小题5:  , or forget about it and  小题6:  the tiles in your life that are not missing.
We all know people who have had a relatively  小题7:  life, yet are often unhappy while people who have suffered a great deal but  小题8:  remain happy.
The first  小题9:  is gratitude. All happy people are  小题10: . Ungrateful people cannot be happy. We tend to think that being unhappy leads people to  小题11:  , but it's truer to say that complaining leads to people becoming unhappy.
The second secret, is 小题12: that happiness is a byproduct(副产品) of something else. The most obvious 小题13: are those pursuits(追求) that give our lives purpose—anything 小题14: studying insects to playing baseball. The more passions we have, the more happiness we are  小题15: to experience.
Finally, the belief that something permanent goes beyond us and that our  小题16:  has some larger meaning can help us to feel happier. We   小题17: a spiritual faith, or a philosophy of life. Whatever your philosophy, it should 小题18:  this truth: if you choose to find the 小题19: in every situation, you will be blessed, and if you choose to find the awful, you will be cursed. As with happiness itself, this is  小题20:   your decision to make.

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A．different B．missing C．short D．broken

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A．nothing B．none C．all D．anything

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A．determined B．predicted C．assumed D．imagined

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A．completely B．naturally C．hopefully D．really

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A．tile B．brick C．ceiling D．house

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A．look on B．focus on C．count on D．decide on

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A．peaceful B．difficult C．easy D．ordinary

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A．certainly B．merely C．hardly D．generally

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A．secret B．factor C．rule D．key

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A．wealthy B．grateful C．proud D．generous

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A．upset B．quarrel C．complain D．depress

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A．admitted B．assuming C．proving D．realizing

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A．sources B．results C．answers D．goals

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A．among B．from C．through D．for

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A．probable B．possible C．likely D．capable

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A．value B．destination C．survival D．existence

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A．need B．lack C．demand D．expect

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A．involve B．include C．absorb D．mean

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A．worst B．best C．positive D．negative

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A．absolutely B．totally C．exactly D．Largely