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How To Give Advice
It’s a great honor(荣幸的事) for us when someone asks for our advice. But it is 小题1: a big responsibility(责任). We should try to help the person make the right decision. Please do according to these 小题2: , and then you can give helpful advice.
Listen to the 小题3: carefully. You can ask questions about the person’s situation. Learn as much as possible 小题4: it. Being an active listener will help you give good 小题5:.
Try to put yourself in the person’s situation. Think about what you 小题6: do if you were in the same situation.
Give different choices to the 小题7: . Sometimes there are many answers for one problem. You can 小题8:the choices to find the best answer.
Be 小题9:.If your advice has another result, tell the person about it. If you don’t know how to work out the problem, be honest. You can tell the person to ask others for advice.
Be polite 小题10: you give advice.