分析下列概念的含义，并说明它们的关系。
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| 自立 | 自主 | 自强 | 自弃 |
| 自立就是自己的事情自己干。 | 自主，就是遇事有主见，能对自己的行为负责。 | 自强是指对未来充满希望，永远向上，奋发进取。 | 自弃，就是指自己懒惰成性，得过且过，不求上进，不思进取。 |
| 自立与自主的关系： | 自主是自立的前提，自立是自主的表现。自立就是明确并承担自己的责任。自主才能明确并承担责任。 | 自强与自弃的关系： | 自强与自弃是对立的。自强，进取的动力，是通向成功的阶梯。而自弃的人没有理想和追去，不愿吃苦，不愿奋斗，最终必将一事无成。 |
During my high school years, the most important thing was what I was wearing to the Friday night dance and who I was taking. Although college was talked about, it was the least of my worries. When I was graduating eighth grade and starting high school, my older brother was graduating twelfth grade and going onto college. For my graduation, he gave me a card in which he wrote, “Enjoy your four years…, they go by fast.” I remember not believe him then, but looking back…, he was right. Those four years shaped who I was as a person, pushed me to my limit and encouraged me to become an adult. However, I was so completely absorbed in my junior and senior years of high school, that when someone spoke of college I brushed it off. I wasn't ready to leave my comfort zone of having all of my closest friends together and knowing what every single day was going to be like . Studying was something I did only AFTER I nailed my half-time dance performance. I knew my parents wanted me to go to college, so I told them I would go to commuity college (社区学院)and I didn’t worry about my SAT（美国大学入学考试）scores. When my senior year passed and everyone graduated and went off to their own college ,I started to wish I had done the same. My friends were living away, meeting new people, discovering new places, and I was living at home and driving to and from class every day. It seemed exactly like high school. I hated it! I thought college was supposed to be different! Why didn’t I take more time to research colleges and do the same? I ended up loving college and wishing I had four years to enjoy the campus(大学校园)atmosphere instead of two. My advice to anyone thinking about attending college is to think about it very seriously and look into all of your choices well ahead of time. Now I have graduate and I am working full time and I would do anything to go back to my high school days for a second chance! 小题1:Why didn’t the author worry about his SAT scores?
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