Our interpersonal skills have a great effect on success in our daily lives. This appears not only in the workplace where we can make more money or enjoy our job more, but also shows itself in marriage, raising a family and the ability to reach goals in almost every area of life. Interpersonal skills come into play when our flight is cancelled and we need to make other arrangements. They come into play when a marriage is threatened by financial challenges or infidelity(不忠).
Our communication skills even matter when we are in traffic and we need to make a decision about how to respond to other drivers. Communicating with others becomes inseparable from having a good day, or a bad day not only in how we begin communication, but in how we react to the communications of others who are having a difficult time.
It can make a difference in saving a marriage or getting a divorce, celebrating a rise or getting fired, and even having your eggs cooked as the way you like at the local restaurant. Many wise men and women have stressed the importance of dealing with others in a skillful manner.
Getting feedback(反馈意见) from others can be of great value in improving our interpersonal communication skills. Often, however, others are not skilled at giving feedback. When we get negative results, they rarely include the details we need in order to improve our interpersonal skills.
Since life improves so much with greater communication skills, getting feedback and an opportunity to improve would be not only life-saving for pilots, but labor-saving for the rest of us. Contact Alice Aspen March for a free consultation today and see how you might improve your communication skills, or learn more about The Attention Factor.
小题1:Which of the following can greatly influence our success in our daily life according to the passage?
A．The education we receive.
B．The skills of making a decision.
C．The nationality of our friends.
D．Our interpersonal skills.小题2:What does the underlined word “They” refer to in the last sentence of Paragraph 1?
A．Family members
B．Interpersonal skills.
C．Husband and wife
D．Challenges of lack of money.小题3:Why does the author mention “traffic” and “other drivers” in the second paragraph?
A．Just to call our attention
B．To tell us the importance of communication skills.
C．To lead us to think of a sad scene
D．To help us not to forget traffic is very important.小题4:Which of the following is true?
A．Getting feedback from others can be valueless in improving our interpersonal skills.
B．Even if we have good communication skills, we will surely not be able to improve our life.
C．If we pay enough money, we can get some advice from Alice Aspen March.
D．Many wise people think communicating with others needs skills.小题5:What’s the best title of the passage?
A．The Attention Factor
B．The Problems of Marriage
C．Interpersonal Skills
D．The Relationship Between Our Feelings and Traffic
