“九一八，九一八，从那个悲惨的时候，脱离了我的家乡，抛弃那无尽的宝藏……”这首歌曾经传遍祖国的大江南北、长城内外。歌词中的“那个悲惨的时候”是指[ ]

A．1929年

B．1930年

C．1931年

D．1932年

Sometimes we have specific problems with our mother; sometimes, life with her can just be hard work. If there are difficulties in your (1) , it’s best to deal with them, (2) remember that any (3) should be done (4) person or by letter. The telephone is not a good (5) because it is too easy (6) either side to (7) the conversation.

Explain to her (8) you find difficult in your relationship and then (9) some new arrangements that you think would establish a (10) balance between you. Sometimes we hold (11) from establishing such boundaries because we are afraid that doing (12) implies we are (13) her. We need to remember that being (14) from our mother does not (15) mean that we no longer love her. If the conflict is (16) and you cannot find a way to (17) it, you might decide to give up your relationship with your mother for a while. Some of my patients had (18) "trial separations". The (19) allowed things to simmer down, enabling (20) .

18（）

A.successful

B.compulsory

C.miserable

D.stationary