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有人认为,自信者总有点自负,自负是自信的一种表现。你同意这种现点吗?说说你的理由。 

                                                                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                                                              

                                                                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                                                               

答案

我不同意这种观点。因为: ①自信是人对自身力量的确信,深信自己一定能做成某件事,实现所追求的目标。而自负是依据虚假事实,不考虑自己的实际情况,盲目肯定自我,过高地估计自己。 ②自负不同于自信,就在于自负者依据的事实是虚假的,追求的目标根本不可能达到。而自信的人依据的事实是真实的,追求的目标是可以达到的。 ③自负的人只看到自己的优点,看不到自己的缺点,自以为了不起,往往过高地估计自己,看不起别人,自以为是。而自信的人能够实事求是地看待自己,既能看到自己的优点,也能看到自己的缺点,能够准确的自我定位和客观自我评价。 所以,自负不是自信的表现,而是不自信的表现。

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