孔子曰：“质胜文则野，文胜质则史。文质彬彬，然后君子。”这句话告诉我们[ ]

A．有教养的人懂礼节，有礼貌      

B．有教养的人有宽广的胸怀，不盲目自大

C．有教养的人懂得尊重别人        

D．有教养的人注意生活细节

Only when he reached the tea-house _____ it was the same place he'd been in last year.[ ]

A. he realized

B. he did realize

C. realized he

D. did he realize