It’s not easy being a teenager nor is it easy being the parent of a teenager．You can make your child feel angry, hurt or misunderstood by what you say without realizing it yourself．It is important to give your child the space he needs to grow while gently letting him know that you’ll still be there for him when he needs you．
Expect a lot from your child，just not everything．Except for health and safety problems，such as drug use or careless driving，consider everything else open to discussion．If your child is unwilling to discuss something，don’t insist he tell you what’s on his mind．The more you insist， the more likely that he’ll clam up．Instead，let him try to solve things by himself. At the same time，remind him that you’re always there for him if he seeks advice or help．Show respect for your teenager’s privacy(隐私)．Never read his mail or listen in on personal conversations．
Teach your teenager that the family phone is for the whole family. If your child talks on the family’s telephone for too long，tell him he can talk for l5 minutes，but then he must stay off the phone for at least all equal period of time．This not only frees up the line so that other family members can make and receive calls，but teaches your teenager moderation(节制).Or if you are open to the idea，allow your teenager his own phone that he pays for with his own pocket money or a part-time job．
小题1:The main purpose of the text is to tell parents ．
A．how to get along with a teenager
B．how to respect a teenager
C．how to help a teenager grow up
D．how to understand a teenager小题2:What does the phrase "clam up" in Paragraph 2 probably mean?
A．become excited
B．show respect
C．refuse to talk
D．seek help小题3:The last paragraph is about how to teach a teenager ________.
A．to use the phone in a proper way
B．to pay for his own telephone
C．to share the phone with friends
D．to answer the phone quickly小题4:What should parents do in raising a teenager according to the text?
A．Not allow him to learn driving or take drugs.
B．Give him advice only when necessary.
C．Let him have his own telephone.
D．Not talk about personal things with him.
