问题 阅读理解与欣赏
        陆九龄,字子寿。父贺,以学行为里人所宗,生六子,九龄其第五子也。幼颖悟端重,十岁丧母,哀毁如成人。稍长,补郡学弟子员。时秦桧当国,无道程氏学者,九龄独尊其说。久之,闻新博士学黄、老,不事礼法,慨然叹曰:“此非吾所愿学也。”遂归家,从父兄讲学益力。是时,吏部员外郎许忻有名中朝,退居临川,少所宾接,一见九龄,与语大说,尽以当代文献告之。自是九龄益大肆力于学,翻阅百家,昼夜不倦,悉通阴阳、星历、五行、卜筮之说。性周谨,不肯苟简涉猎。入太学,司业汪应辰举为学录。登乾道五年进士第。调桂阳军教授,以亲老道远改兴国军,未上,会湖南茶寇剽庐陵,声摇旁郡,人心震摄。旧有义社以备寇,郡从众请,以九龄主之,门人多不悦。九龄曰:“文事武备,一也。古者有征讨,公卿即为将帅,比闾之长,则五两[注]之率也。士而耻此,则豪侠武断者专之矣。”遂领其事,调度屯御皆有法。寇虽不至,而郡县倚以为重。暇则与乡之子弟习射,曰:“是固男子之事也。”岁恶,有剽劫者过其门,必相戒曰:“是家射多命中,无自取死。” 及至兴国,地滨大江,俗俭啬而鲜知学。九龄不以职闲自佚,益严规矩,肃衣冠,如临大众,劝绥引翼,士类兴起。不满岁,以继母忧去。服除,调全州教授。未上 ,得疾。一日晨兴,坐床上与客语,犹以天下学术人才为念。至夕,整襟正卧而卒。年四十九。宝庆二年,特赠朝奉郎、直秘阁,赐谥文达。九龄尝继其父志,益修礼学,治家有法。阖门百口,男女以班各供其职,闺门之内严若朝廷。而忠敬乐易,乡人化之,皆逊弟焉。与弟九渊相为师友,和而不同,学者号“二陆”。有来问学者,九龄从容启告,人人自得。或未可与语,则不发。尝曰:“人之惑有难以口舌争者,言之激,适固其意;少须,未必不自悟也。” 广汉张栻与九龄不相识,晚岁以书讲学,期以世道之重。吕祖谦常称之曰:“所志者大,所据者实。有肯綮之阻,虽积九仞之功不敢遂;有毫厘之偏,虽立万夫之表不敢安。公听并观,却立四顾,弗造于至平至粹之地,弗措也。”
        (选自《宋史·列传第一百九十三》)
        [注]五两,古代候风的用具。用五两(一说八两)鸡毛制成,故名。一般立在军营 中或船舶上,以便随时观测风向。
1、对下列各句中加粗词的解释,不正确的一项是(      )
A.以学行为里人所 宗:尊崇
B.九龄不以职闲自 佚:放纵
C.或未可与语,则不 发:发放
D.弗造于至平至粹之地,弗也 措:放弃
2、以下六句话,分别编为四组,全都表现陆九龄性情周谨的一组是(     )
①哀毁如成人
②悉通阴阳、星历、五行、卜筮之说
③暇则与乡之子弟习射
④益严规矩 ⑤整襟正卧而卒
⑥有毫厘之偏,虽立万夫之表不敢安
A.①④⑤
B.②④⑥
C.②③⑤ 
D.④⑤⑥
3、下列对原文有关内容的理解和分析,不正确的一项是(     )
A.陆九龄尊崇程氏的学说,但在秦桧把持朝政时,没人讲程氏之学,学员都不遵循礼法,陆九龄干脆回家,一边跟着父亲兄长努力讲学,一边求名师读百家,昼夜发奋博览群书。
B.陆九龄在乾道五年考中了进士,本来被调任为桂阳军教授,但因为亲近黄老道家学说,就改任兴国军教授。只是还没上任,就赶上湖南的茶寇剽掠庐陵,人心惶惶。
C.陆九龄不仅在追求博学和习武练兵上用心,在治家方面也井然有序,他以礼传教对社会影响也比较大。他去世后,皇帝赠奉赐谥,学者文人也给予了他很高评价。
D.陆九龄对于向他求教的人其授课方法是灵活的,如果人家需要他讲,他就从容地陈述讲解;如果人家并不说出自己的困惑,那他也不急于先为人师,而是尽量让对方自己体悟。
4、把文言文阅读材料中画横线的句子翻译成现代汉语。
(1)少所宾接,一见九龄,与语大说,尽以当代文献告之。
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(2)有肯綮之阻,虽积九仞之功不敢遂。
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答案
1、C
2、D 
3、B
4、(1)(许忻)很少接待宾客,一见到陆九龄,跟他说话觉得很愉快,就把当时的文学典籍全部告诉了他。
(2)有关键之处的阻碍,即使累积了九仞高山般的功夫也不敢满足。
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Making Peace with Your Parents

As a teen, you’re going through big changes physically and mentally. Your interests are expanding.   小题1:  .

Here is the challenge: Kids need to explore the world in new ways, and parents need to protect them from the dangers that are out in that world. These conflicts can easily set off fireworks in otherwise calm houses. Sometimes conflicts can’t be avoided. But by paying attention to the building blocks of successful relationships, you can work towards making home a happy and healthy place for you and your parents.

For instance, try to find a time to talk when your parents are not angry, tired, distracted, or hungry. A good time to talk is when you’re all relaxed. Timing is everything. If the conversation begins to turn into an argument, you’d better calmly and coolly ask to stop the conversation --- for now. 小题2:  . Listen to what your parents are saying, and repeat it back to them. This shows them that you’re listening.  小题3:  .

Respect is the building block of good communication. People who respect each other and care about each others’ feelings can disagree without things getting ugly.

   小题4:   . How do you build trust? Trust comes by actually doing what you say you’re going to do. Some teens find that doing fun activities with their parents can improve their relationships. Sometimes we forget that parents are more than rule-makers --- they’re interesting people who like to watch movies, and go shopping --- just like their teenagers!

What do you do if you are trying your best, but your relationship with your parents continues to be rocky?  小题5:  . You can find supportive adults, such as a teacher or a coach, who can lend an ear.

Remember you can only change your own behavior. You parents are the only ones who can change theirs.

A.It also gives them a chance to clear things up if you’re not on the same page.

B.You can pick it up again when everyone’s more relaxed.

C.And then you’ll be able to accept what your parents say.

D.Faced with the challenge, children don’t know what to do.E.You are more likely to get along with your parents and have more independence if your parents believe in you.

F.And your desire to take control of your own life is growing.

G.You may consider seeking outside help.