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     A wise and understanding heart does not repay a hurt with a hurt. In doing    1  , the heart is diminished.

Gaps form. Love leaks out. Every pain   2   (give)in return for one received changes the contents of the heart.

It is no   3   defined (下定义)by love,wis- dom and understanding. It is redefined by the bearers of hurt and

hate, pain and prejudice, meanness and madness,    4   (sorry) and sadness. You give away control of your

very own heart.

     The    5   (hope) of being hurt is cured by overcoming it, not clinging to the hurt and inflicting more of it

on the world. When darkness is   6   (add) to darkness, no one can see, no one can love. Everyone loses.

     Love is not always warm and unclear.    7    it's the honesty we hold on to that persuades us to strike back.

Sometimes it's the honor   8   keeps us from exchanging the valuable contents of our heart for the cruel

satisfaction.

       No, the way of love is not always easy, but   9   night falls, dawn is certain. The   10   and honor of a

wise and understanding heart, rises with the sun of a new day.