问题 多项选择题

一般资料:男,26岁,在读博士研究生。
求助问题:失恋,学业压力大,伴紧张焦虑1个月。
下面是一段心理咨询师与求助者的访谈过程,请据此回答问题。
心理咨询师:你来这里,是有什么心理困惑吧,我想知道,我在哪方面能向你提供帮助。
求助者:我最近一个月心情非常烦躁,什么事情也静不下心来做,压力非常大。不知您能否帮助我
心理咨询师:你愿意详细谈谈最近都发生了哪些事情吗
求助者:两个月前我的女友在毫无预兆的情况下,毅然决然地向我提出分手,丝毫没有挽回的余地。当时我非常痛苦,可是想到一个月后要做博士开题报告,只好安慰自己“天涯何处无芳草”,于是打起精神准备开题。不幸的是我的开题报告没有通过,导师通知我另选题目,这件事对我的打击非常大,爱情没有了,学业也不顺利。
到现在为止,我不知我能否找到新的题目,而且,我硕士阶段所学与我现在的专业没有关系。所以我很焦虑,晚上经常失眠,白天又看不进文献。将来的路怎么走,我都不知该怎么办了
心理咨询师:哦,听了你的叙述,我也很为你痛苦和焦虑。先是女友分手,紧接着开题又没有通过。这让你感到非常焦虑和迷茫,是这样吗
求助者:是的,假如我的学业顺利的话,失恋对我来说影响不会太大,可是我现在博士毕业有困难,我们专业常规的毕业周期是4~6年,我已读了2年了,可我现在还得从头开始一个新的方向,我很担心我无法毕业。
心理咨询师:嗯。你担心自己无法毕业。
求助者:是的,我现在都在考虑退学的事情了,可是我从小到大一直是我父母的骄傲也是我们村家长教育自家小孩的榜样,我这样退学回家,我感到没脸见人。
心理咨询师:退学的念头,让你感到羞愧。
求助者:是的,尽管这样,我还是准备了退路,我报考了公务员,希望退学后能找个好工作、可是离考试只有一个月的时间了,我一点书也看不进去了。老师,我把我所有问题都告诉您了,您能告诉我该怎么办吗

心理咨询师在此咨询中使用过的技术有( )。

A.自我开放

B.具体化

C.面质技术

D.重复技术

答案

参考答案:B,D

解析:自我开放指咨询师提出自己的情感、思想、经验与求助者共同分享。面质技术指咨询师指出求助者身上存在的矛盾。具体化技术指咨询师协助求助者清楚、准确地表述他们的观点、所用的概念、所体验到的情感以及所经历的事件。重复技术指直接地重复求助者的话或仅以某些词语如“嗯”、“讲下去”、“还有吗”等,来强化求助者叙述的内容并鼓励其进一步讲下去。根据案例描述可知答案为BD。

阅读理解

阅读理解。

     In so many ways, cyberspace (网络空间) mirrors (反映) the real world. People ask for information,

play games, and share hobby tips. Others buy and sell products. Still others look for friendship, or even

love.

     Unlike the real world, however, your knowledge about a person is limited to words on a computer

screen. Identity (身份) and appearance mean very little in cyberspace. Rather, a person's thoughts or at

least the thoughts they type are what really counts. So even the shyest person can become a chat-room

star.

     Usually, this "faceless" communication doesn't create problems. Identity doesn't really matter when

you are in a chat-room discussing politics or hobbies. In fact, this emphasis (重视) on the idea themselves makes the Internet a great place for exciting conversation. Where else can so many people come together

to chat?

     Some Internet users want more than just someone to chat with. They are looking for serious love

relationships. Is cyberspace a good place to find love? That answer depends on whom you ask. Some of

these relationships actually succeed. Others end in tears. Supporters of online relationships claim that the

Internet allows couples to know how intelligent they are first. Personal appearance doesn't get in the way.

      But critics (批评者) of online relationships argue that no one can truly know another person in

cyberspace. Why? Because the Internet gives users a lot of control over how others view them. Internet

users can carefully choose their words to fit whatever image they want to give. And they don't have to

worry about what their non-verbal communication is doing for their image. In a sense, they're not really

themselves. All of this may be fine if the relationship stays in cyberspace. But not knowing a person is a

big problem in a love relationship. With so many unknowns, it's easy to let one's imagination "fall in the

blanks". This surely leads to disappointment when couples meet in person. How someone imagines an

online friend is often quite different from the real person.

     So before looking for love in cyberspace, remember the advice of Internet pioneer Clifford Stoll,

"Life in the real world is far richer than anything you'll find on a computer screen."

1. Which would the critics of online relationships most probably DISAGREE to?

A. Nobody can truly know another person in cyberspace.

B. Internet users can choose words to create any image they like.

C. The Internet allows couples to know how intelligent they are.

D. In a sense, Internet users are not really themselves.

2. Even the shyest person can become a chat-room star because what's really important is

    a person's ________.

A. non-verbal communication            

B. thoughts typed on the screen

C. knowledge and appearance            

D. identity shown in the chat

3. The underlined word "This" (Paragraph 5) refers to_______.

A. imagining online friends with so many unknowns.

B. forming personal relationship in cyberspace.

C. having exciting conversations online.

D. knowing a person in a love relationship.

4. What's the writer's attitude towards finding love in cyberspace?

A. Positive

B. Disinterested

C. Interested

D. Negative

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