问题 多项选择题

一般资料:某女,14岁,初中三年级学生。近一个月来,因对母亲有一种不好的想法和行为,感到痛苦来求助。由母亲陪同。该女生长相清秀、身材修长、衣着得体、表情自如、举止大方、懂礼貌。
求助者自述:每当我母亲碰我一下的时候,不论是有意的或无意的,我都会感到不舒服而必须碰她一下还回来,否则心里就会感到很难受。为此我感到很痛苦。
咨询对话片断:
心理咨询师:你为什么要报复你妈妈说说吧!
求助者:(沉默)
心理咨询师:你认为妈妈碰你一下是对你的一种伤害吗
求助者:那肯定不是!
心理咨询师:就是说,你知道母亲碰你并非是有意识地要伤害你,但你都感到被碰了很不舒服,是这样吗
求助者:是的。
心理咨询师:为什么你会感到难受呢
求助者:必须要还回来,否则就会很难受。
心理咨询师:难道还回来你就真的不难受了
求助者:是啊!
心理咨询师:那为什么你还会感到痛苦呢
求助者:那是我母亲啊,她是我最亲的人,我都对她有这样的报复心理,我能不痛苦吗
心理咨询师:这种痛苦的心情会影响到你的学习吗睡眠和食欲受影响吗
求助者:到学校后还好,一回到家见到母亲就不好,影响晚上复习功课。吃睡都还好。
心理咨询师:请问你母亲做什么工作你父亲呢他们的关系怎么样你和谁沟通的较多
求助者:我母亲是中学教师,她非常优秀,我很为她骄傲。我父亲在一家外企工作,他经常出差。爸爸妈妈关系很好,很少吵架什么的。和父亲沟通的机会少一些,虽然少,但父亲也很爱我,很理解我。
心理咨询师:对父亲也有那种想法和行为吗
求助者:没有。真的。我也挺奇怪,我怎么只对妈妈有这种想法呢(困惑、茫然的神情)
心理咨询师:(转移一下话题)你这个年龄,应该是独生女吧。
求助者:那当然是。
心理咨询师:你们班的同学也应该都是。顺便问一下,你对班里的同学有没有这种想法和行为呢
求助者:原先好像没有……嗯,有一点,但不重。
心理咨询师:原先好像没有,那就是说现在有了。请谈一下这方面的情况好吗越详细越好。我再重申一遍,你对我所说的一切都会保密的。
(此处略去一段谈话)
心理咨询师:说到这位同学,我想问一下,当时她的功课比你好吗
求助者:不如我。
心理咨询师:长相呢
求助者:好像也不如我。
心理咨询师:你们都弹钢琴,是吧
求助者:是。可我会画画,我的画在全国得过奖,她不会。
心理咨询师:她琴弹得比你好吗
求助者:没比过。
心理咨询师:她到过你家没有
求助者:来过。
心理咨询师:弹过琴吗
求助者:弹过。
心理咨询师:是你让她弹的吗
求助者:不是,是我妈妈让她弹的。
心理咨询师:你妈妈说她弹的怎么样
求助者:当她面的时候当然说她弹的很好了,不过她走了以后,又说她弹的有点慢。
心理咨询师:你当时怎么想的
求助者:因为我平时弹琴有点快,钢琴老师经常批评我控制不住节奏,所以当时认为妈妈说的并不是批评她。

心理咨询师在咨询中使用的提问方式包括( )。

A.间接询问

B.直接逼问

C.开放提问

D.封闭提问

答案

参考答案:B,C,D

解析:“你为什么要报复你妈妈说说吧!”属于直接逼问;“为什么你会感到难受呢”“那为什么你还会感到痛苦呢”属于开放提问;“她琴弹得比你好吗”“她到过你家没有”属于封闭提问。因此答案为BCD。

阅读理解

阅读理解。

     The Spring Festival, Chinese Lunar New Year, is China's most significant holiday of the year, when families get together to celebrate. In modern times, however, the old ways of spending the New Year no longer meet the needs of young people, who have created various new ways to celebrate the traditional holiday.

    In today's society, people are not as stable as they used to be, changing jobs and moving to another city to work is quite common. Having a big family

reunion dinner is difficult.

    People who have a longer holiday such as Li Qian, a magazine editor,

prefer to go outside the city to celebrate.

   "We are going to walk alongside the Yellow River, chen go to the Shaaxi

countryside to celebrate the New Year,"said Li. "I feel that I can only have a

truly traditional New Year celebration in the countryside. "

     Last year, Li spent the  New Year with his friends in Junxian County ,

central China's Henan Province. Interested in folk craftwork , Li bought two boxes of local products such as a special kind of mud sculpture (混塑) and

New Year paintings, only available during the Spring Festival.

   "Everything in the countryside is very traditional, just like how people

celebrated the New Year in old times, while in the city there isn't much

holiday atmosphere," Li said. "The farmers are very down-to-earth and they

have kept all the traditions. "

1. What happens to Chinese Lunar New Year in modern times?       

A. All people return home before the day comes as usual.

B. Most people spend their New Year with their friends after returning home.

C. Some people can't return home to celebrate the New Year because they

have noholidays.

D. Some people prefer to spend their New Year like Mr. Li, even if they have longer holidays.

2. Why does Mr. Li like to go to the countryside to celebrate the New Year?

A. Because he wants to have a truely traditional New Year.

B. Because he doesn't want to celebrate it in the city.

C. Because he has no family to celebrate with.

D. Because the farmer in the countryside needs his help a lot.    

3. What does the underlined words "folk craftwork " mean in this passage?

A.她产品                

B.好吃的东西

C. 手工艺品            

D.风土人情  

4. After reading the passage, what can we know about the attitude of the

young people to the New Year?

A. They enjoy the old way their parents celebrate the New Year.

B. They are interested in staying at home watching TV programs.

C. They have no interest in celebrating the New Year traditionally.

D. They prefer new ways to celebrate the New Year.   

5. What does the writer want to tell us in this passage?

A. Traditional celebration is changing in today's world.

B. No young people like to celebrate the New Year.

C. Only do we go to the countryside we can celebrate Chinese New Year.

D. Traditional celebration is no longer in China.

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