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     There once was a group of tiny frogs(青蛙) who held a running competition. The goal

was to reach the top of a very high tower. A big crowd had gathered around the tower to

see the race and cheer on the contestants.(选手)

     The race began…

     Honestly, no one in the crowd really believed that the tiny frogs would reach the top of

the tower. You heard statements such as:

     "Oh, it's too difficult!"

     "They will NEVER make it to the top."

     "Not a chance that they will succeed. The tower is too high!"

     The tiny frogs began falling down, one by one…

     …except for those who in a fresh tempo(节奏) were climbing higher and higher…

     The crowd continued to shout, "It is too difficult! No one will make it!"

     More tiny frogs got tired and gave up… But one continued higher and higher and

higher …This one wouldn't give up!

    In the end, everyone else had given up climbing the tower, except for the one tiny frog

which, after a big effort(努力), was the only one who reached the top!

     Then all of the other tiny frogs naturally wanted to know how this tiny frog managed to

do it.

     A contestant asked the frog how he had found the strength to reach the goal. It turned

out that the winner was deaf.

1. The big crowd's statements showed that ________.

A. they tried to discourage the contestants

B. they thought the contestants would give up

C. they didn't believe that the contestants would succeed

D. they hoped that they could watch a wonderful game

2. As the crowd expected, the tiny frogs began to ________.

A. climb higher and higher

B. fall down one by one

C. make it to the top

D. beat each other

3. When asked how the succeeded, the winner ________.

A. didn't mention the secret

B. couldn't hear or answer at all

C. was too shy to answer

D. didn't care about it at all

4. The story mainly tells us that ________.

A. nothing is impossible if we put our heart into it

B. a deaf frog can run much faster than others

C. we shouldn't care about what others say if we want to succeed

D. we needn't spend too much time in looking for special skills.

答案

1-4CBBC

单项选择题 A1/A2型题
单项选择题 案例分析题

【案例一】

一般资料:求助者,男性,76岁,退休干部。

案例介绍:求助者年轻时曾到外国留学,成绩非常优秀,回国后担任技术干部,是非常出色的业务领导,获得了很多荣誉。退休后对自己的生活不满意,和老伴经常吵嘴,认为老伴总是不听自己的,干什么都不合自己的意。不喜欢儿孙们回来,对他们有些看不惯。求助者目前最大的烦恼是,总觉得事事不如自己的意,家里人都反对他,心里十分痛苦,前来寻求帮助。

心理咨询师观察了解到的情况:求助者自尊心较强,在业务上取得了突出成绩,容不得失败,追求完美。

下面是心理咨询师和求助者的一段咨询对话:

心理咨询师:您能具体说说您生气的原因吗?

求助者:我和老伴常为一些家庭琐事吵架。她干什么总不合我的意,我说她,她也不听,说我太较真。女儿烦我,说干脆送我到养老院去。唉!我都快成孤家寡人了。

我也不愿意孩子们回来,闹腾的很,他们做的很多事我都看不惯。我对自己要求很严,上学时,我的成绩非常优秀,门门都要求自己得一百分。工作后也非常出色,我们的科研成果总是走在行业的前列。我对两个女儿要求也很严,学习必须好,工作也要出色。社区里的老人我也看不上,他们不如我。但自己也苦恼,很多方面都不如以前了。

心理咨询师:噢,我明白了,您的老伴、儿女都不太听您的话,这样使您很生气,是这样吗?

求助者:那当然是,如果他们听我的话,我怎么会生气?

心理咨询师:按您所说,您说话别人就应该听。

求助者:是的,我说的都对,他们当然应该听我的。

心理咨询师:您坚持认为一个人讲话,另一个人就应该听从,对吗?

求助者:对呀,他们必须听正确的。

心理咨询师:因此,别人讲的正确,您肯定听,为您的健康劝您戒烟,您肯定听了,肯定戒烟了。

求助者:对,……噢,不对,(沉默)好像不是,我女儿劝我戒烟,我也没戒。

心理咨询师:您刚讲过一个人说的正确的话,另一个人应该听从,而您又讲了您女儿劝您戒烟,但您并没有戒,这似乎有些矛盾,请问您怎么解释?

求助者:(沉默)可我说的是对的,他们应该听我的。

心理咨询师:您女儿劝您戒烟,是对还是错?

求助者:(沉默)

心理咨询师:您想想,我们都有到餐馆吃饭的经历,您觉得回锅肉好吃,别人都要和您一样都吃回锅肉吗?是不是可以各取所需,允许别人吃别的菜?

求助者:那倒是。

心理咨询师:您对自己要求严格,别人也非要这样吗?

求助者:是的。

心理咨询师:实际上呢?

求助者:(语塞)恰好不是这样,我说了他们不听。

心理咨询师:怎么会您说了而他们不听?

求助者:你的意思是我说了他们,他们也可以不听?

心理咨询师:您说呢?

求助者:难道他们真的可以不听?

心理咨询师:请您想一下,拿来几个土豆,都可以有几种吃法?

求助者:可以炒土豆丝,可以土豆烧牛肉,可以……我好像明白了,本来有多种可能的事,我就要求了一种。

心理咨询师:您对别人提出要求,要求他们必须听您的,这是一种绝对化的要求,一种不合理的信念。如果您把对别人的“要求”变成了“希望”,当您不希望的事情发生时,最多是一种失望,自己也就不会生气了。

求助者:你讲的很对。

心理咨询师:明白了吗?说不说由您,听不听由他们,以后可别多管闲事,自找没趣了。

“您坚持认为一个人讲话,另一个人就应该听从”表明心理咨询师()。

A.实施对求助者的教育

B.启发求助者思考

C.按求助者的信念推理

D.改变求助者信念