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交往与困惑(7分)

许娜升入初中后,好像变了个人似的,原来性格活泼开朗的她,逐渐变得孤僻起来。在家里,有什么心里话也不想对父母讲,常把自己关在屋里,还把抽屉上了锁,好像有什么秘密怕被别人知道;在学校,上课不愿举手回答问题,一些活动也不积极参加,很少主动与老师、同学交往。每天除了去学校上课外,大部分时间都独自在家书、看电视。同学、朋友慢慢地疏远了她。为此,许娜非常苦恼。

(1)许娜的这种行为是什么心理造成的?有什么危害?(3分)

(2)请告诉她应该怎么摆脱苦恼?为什么?(4分)

答案

(1)许娜这是闭锁心理的体现。在与同学的交往中,如果封闭自己,只会让我们的“人际关系树轮”萎缩,使自己陷入孤立。

(2)许娜应该:敞开自己的心扉;积极交往;开放自我。因为,保持积极开放的心态,我们就会接触更多的人,分享更多的经验和快乐,同时也会被更多的人接纳。

题目分析:(1)根据题意,孤僻、不与他人沟通交流、不参加活动、不与老师同学交往,是典型的闭锁心理的表现,闭锁心理的危害教材有明确表述,即最终会导致自己的人际关系走向失败,自己走向孤立。(2)根据题意,摆脱苦恼,就要改变以前自己的做法,与父母老师同学敞开心扉去交流和交往,把自己的心打开;与别人进行沟通交流的过程是自己提高的过程,也是享受快乐的过程。

阅读理解

Reading comprehension.

     When I was leaving to meet Lynne, my friend Tony told me that I'd better take some money. But I didn't

listen to him. I thought Lynne would pay because she had invited me. I arrived at the restaurant on time. I

know Americans expect you to be on time. Lynne and I sat at a table and a waiter brought us some delicious

food.

     The dinner was a great success. We talked a lot while eating. After two hours, the waiter finally came and

asked if we wanted one check (账单) or two, Lynne said two. We went to the cashier and Lynne paid her

check. I was embarrassed when the cashier gave me my bill. I had no money to pay for my meal. Then I had

an idea. I said, "Oh! I forgot my wallet! Can I call my friend, please?" The cashier showed me where the phone

was and I quickly called Tony. In a few minutes, he arrived with some money, and paid my check. He laughed

at me all the way home. Now, I think it's funny too, but at that time I was very embarrassed. I thought an

invitation to have dinner in America meant the same thing as that in China. Now I think you have to understand

that your customs are only your customs. When you visit a foreign country, you have to learn about their

customs, too. They can be quite different.

Fill in the blanks according to the passage. Only one word for each blank.

     One day I got an invitation to dinner from Lynne. Before I left, my friend Tony told me to take some

money, but I didn't take his 1______. I reached the restaurant on time because I know being late is thought

to be 2______ . Lynne and I enjoyed the dinner very much. But two hours 3______, I got into trouble

4______ my check. I thought Lyrme would pay 5______ of the checks. In fact I was wrong. I had to call

Tony for help. After the problem was solved, I realized the importance of learning about different customs.

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