小文上中学后，开始有了自己的小秘密。她将自己的日记本、信件放进书桌的小抽屉里，准备锁起来。妈妈告诉她：“爸爸妈妈知道你的想法，你长大了，希望有自己的空间，我们尊重你。”面对父母的信任，小文觉得自己也应该尊重和信任父母。这个事例告诉我们，子女与父母沟通[ ]

①尊重理解是关键②要学会换位思考③彼此了解是前提④要求同存异

A．①②③

B．②③④

C．①③④

D．①②③④

Man: Mary doesn’t want me to take the job. She says our child is too young. And the job requires much travelling.
Woman: You should talk to her again and see if you can find a way out. Think about the gains and losses before you make the decision.
Question: What do we learn from the conversation().

A. The man is thinking about taking a new job.

B. The man likes a job that enables him to travel.

C. The man is sure that he will gain more by taking the job.

D. The man doesn’t want to stay home and take care of their child.