问题 材料分析题

张明同学十分健谈,但他并不受欢迎。与别人谈话时总是说个没完,对方说话时,还经常打断对方的讲话,有时甚至干脆不听,他一说话还爱带脏字,说话不给别人留面子,让人下不了台。

请你帮张明分析一下他不受欢迎的原因,应该如何改进?

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答案

(1)在倾听的过程中,他没有保持专心、尊重和体谅的态度;在表达时没有照顾别人的感受;说话带脏字说明他不文明,没有注意礼貌。

(2)学会表达,以恰当的方式表达我们的看法和感受是成功交往的重要技巧;学会倾听,以积极的或主动的倾听是成功交往的重要技巧之一;学会加入和参加他人的活动,学会让别人接受和接受别人,学会赞美和批评等,都有利于开展成功的人际交往。

阅读理解

First lady Michelle Obama urged students to visit China at the “100,000 Strong” China Study Abroad Forum at Howard University.

President Barack Obama announced the “100,000 Strong” Initiative(十万强计划)during his 2009 visit to China. The program aims to increase the number of American students studying in China by making study abroad more affordable.

During the event at Howard, Mrs. Obama spoke about the importance of studying abroad. “Studying in a country like China is about so much more than just improving your own prospects(前途) in the global market. The fact is that with every friendship you make and every bond of trust you establish you are shaping an image of America projected to the rest of the world and making America known better.” she said.

Mrs. Obama encouraged students to set aside the opinion that studying abroad is for “rich kids only” or for those attending “certain schools”. The first lady also announced that the Chinese government is giving 10,000 “Bridge Scholarships” to cover costs for American students studying in China.

Some students who had studied in China shared their experiences. David Marzban from Pepperdine University recalled a time when he formed a cross-cultural bond with a complete stranger at a restaurant near Fudan University in Shanghai. He noticed a young chef signaling him to come over. “He pressed the play button on his media player and started singing California Dreaming and wanted me to sing along with him,” Marzban said. “At that time I knew a great friendship had started during my first two weeks in China.”

Nicole Baden from Howard University recalled how her time in China really helped her master the language. “You have to experience the culture while learning the language to really master it to understand why things are how they are compared to your own culture,” Baden said.

12-year-old Sarah Davis, who studied in China last summer, said she was very excited to hear Michelle Obama talk about the country. “I love Chinese. Out of all the languages I’ve learned, Chinese is the most difficult and interesting.” She said.

小题1: According to the passage, the “100,000 Strong” Initiative ______.

A.provides convenience for American students to study in China

B.was made by First Lady Michelle Obama in 2009

C.got little support from the Chinese government

D.isn’t well-accepted among American students小题2:According to Mrs. Obama, ______.

A.American students used to be unable to study abroad

B.Studying in China can make American students’ future better

C.the Chinese government will offer all the US students scholarships

D.American students’ studying in China helps improve the relationship between China and the US小题3:Three examples are given mainly to indicate that ______.

A.American students are very popular in China

B.Chinese is the most difficult to learn in the world

C.Many US young people have actually been studying in China

D.American students’ studying in China is important and worthwhile小题4: What is the best title for the passage?

A.A great program for American students to study in China

B.Michelle Obama encourages students to study in China

C.More American students will go to China to study

D.China is attracting more and more American students

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