问题 材料分析题

掌握交往的艺术,善于与人相处,是我们随着生活的扩展而逐渐走向成熟的标志。

(1)在我们的生活中,我们要和父母、老师、同学、亲友以及其他人交往。交往的品德要求有很多,除了“孝敬”之外,你还能写出3个吗?(只写出关键词即可)

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(2)某校八年级(1)班的同学在学完第一课后,围绕“我与父母”的话题开展了一次主题班会。有些同学说:“我们现在就是应该享受父母的爱,还没有到回报的时候,在家里什么也不用做。”这些同学的说法对吗,为什么?

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(3)对学生而言,老师是长者,也是朋友。与老师的交往,是我们生活的重要内容。与异性同学交往也是学校生活的一个重要内容。那么,请你简要地说说中学生应该如何跟老师和异性同学交往?

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答案

(1)如:诚实、守信、平等待人、尊重、宽容、友善、负责、互助合作等。(答出3个即可)

(2)这些同学的说法是错误的。因为父母不仅赋予我们生命,而且含辛茹苦地哺育我们成长,教我们做人,他们为家庭作出了贡献,为我们付出了许多,他们应当得到爱的回报,理应受到我们的孝敬。孝敬父母要体现在日常生活中一件件小事上,心里想着父母,理解关心、父母;行动上帮助父母,为父母分忧;努力学习、积极上进,让父母高兴,这些都是孝敬父母的表现。

(3)与老师交往应做到:主动沟通;从老师的角度看问题;正确对待老师的表扬和批评;原谅老师的错误;礼貌待师,注意场合,勿失分寸。

与异性同学交往,需要相互尊重,又要自重自爱;既要开放自己,又要掌握分寸;既要主动热情,又要注意交往的方式、场合、时间和频率等等。

单项选择题

A child who has once been pleased with a tale likes, as a rule, to have it retold in almost the same words, but this should not lead parents to treat printed fairy stories as formal texts. It is always much better to tell a story than read it out of a book, and, if a parent can produce what, in the actual situation of the time and the child, is an improvement on the printed text, so much the better.

A charge made against fairy tales is that they harm the child by frightening him or making him sad thinking. To prove the latter, one would have to show in a controlled experiment that children who have read fairy stories were more often sorry for cruelty than those who had not. As to fears, there are, I think, some cases of children being dangerously terrified by some fairy story. Often, however, this arises from the child having heard the story once. Familiarity with the story by repetition turns the pain of fear into the pleasure of a fear faced and mastered.There are also people who object to fairy stories on the grounds that they are not objectively true, that giants, witches, two-headed dragons, magic carpets, etc. do not exist; and that, instead of being fond of the strange side in fairy tales, the child should be taught to learn the reality by studying history. I find such people, I must say so peculiar that I do not know how to argue with them. If their case were sound, the world should be full of mad men attempting to fly from New York to Philadelphia on a stick or covering a telephone with kisses in the belief that it was their beloved girl-friend. No fairy story ever declared to be a description of the real world and no clever child has ever believed that it was.

The author’s mention of sticks and telephones is meant to suggest that()

A. fairy stories are still being made up

B. there is some misunderstanding about fairy tales

C. people try to modernize old fairy stories

D. there is more concern for children’s fears nowadays

单项选择题